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Who we are

Two students,
a tape recorder,
and time.

We started Letter of Life because we each lost a grandparent before we got to ask the questions. This is our way of making sure other families don't.

An elderly person's hands holding a younger person's hands
the time we never got

Gavin Young

Co-founder

My grandfather passed away when I was very little, and I have a hundred questions I'll never get to ask him. I started Letter of Life so other kids don't end up where I am — wishing they'd written it down while there was still time.

— Gavin

Eli Xie

Co-founder

My grandparents on my dad's side passed before I was born, and I only met my grandfather on my mom's side once. I co-founded Letter of Life to make up for the time I never got — by giving that time to someone else.

— Eli
Our process

Three sittings,
then a letter.

Each story is built over three unhurried conversations — 45 to 60 minutes each, by phone or video. Structured enough to guide, loose enough to wander.

01
Session one

Beginnings

Early life, family, the place they grew up. We start at the beginning and let them set the pace.

Session two

The middle chapters

Career, love, the turning points, the proudest moments. The years that shaped who they became.

Session three

Reflections

Advice, messages to family, the things they most want remembered. The wisdom they'd like to leave behind.

After the sittings

Written, read back, delivered

We turn it into two pieces — a full biography and a one-page letter in their own voice — review every word with them, and hand it to their family to keep.

Nothing is published without the resident saying yes.

Each finished piece is read back and approved before it's finalized. Completed stories are delivered to families as printed keepsakes and, only with the resident's explicit consent, kept in our archive so the people in them are not forgotten.

What we hold to

D

Dignity

Every person's story matters, regardless of who's left to hear it.

G

It's a gift

We work at no cost to facilities or residents. This is a gift, never a service to sell.

V

Their voice

We write in each resident's own words, not ours. These are their stories, in their voice.

P

Privacy

Residents choose what they share and whether it's published. Nothing is public without consent.

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